Ten Hot Tips to Light Your Woman’s Fire
By Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
1. Touch
Women are very tactile beings. They love to be touched and caressed.
Hold her, massage her, tease and tantalize her playfully with your fingers.
Don’t go straight to the genitals, pay attention to her whole body.
2. Kisses
Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest turn ons for a woman.
Looking into her eyes or touching her face while kissing her can increase
the arousal of the kiss. Kissing other parts of the body such as the
neck, belly, inner thighs, buttocks, pelvis area surrounding the vagina,
fingers and maybe even the feet for some can heighten her pleasure.
3. Emotional Connection
For women, sex is usually an emotional act as well as a physical act.
The deeper the emotional connection, the better the sex will be for
her and the deeper her desire for her lover will become. Share your
feelings with your woman and express how you feel about her freely.
For her, what goes on outside the bedroom is an important factor of
what will occur in the bedroom.
4. Foreplay and Aferplay
There is nothing that is a bigger turn off for a woman than a lover
who
immediately begins penetration without tending to her body and mind.
Just as important as foreplay is the period of time immediately following
the sex, afterplay. Afterplay reinforces how a woman feels about the
sexual experience and will have a great impact on how she responds to
her lover in the future.
5. Make Her Feel Important
Women also need to feel important to their lover. Take an active interest
in who she is as a person and what goes on in her life. Ignite your
woman’s passion by making her feel special, cherished and adored.
6. Value and Respect
For sex to be at its best, most women need to feel valued and respected
by their lover. Her desire and level of satisfaction will grow deeper.
She will want her lover more frequently and be more motivated to meet
his sexual needs as well.
7. Listen
Women are more attracted to a man who listens to her and actually hears
her. Being heard makes her feel important and valued, thereby increasing
her feelings of intimacy with her lover and encouraging her to be free
and uninhibited in her lovemaking. Her level of satisfaction is enhanced
and her desire for her lover increased.
8. Show Her Your Passion and Desire
A woman wants to be wanted passionately. She wants to see your deep
desire for her and feel how much you want her. Pursue her passionately
and she will be a wild cat full of desire.
9. Take Your Time
The path to orgasm is just as fulfilling as the orgasm itself and the
path is also important for enhancing her orgasmic experience. Take the
long meandering road, savoring, pampering and adoring every part of
her body along the way.
10. Be a Master of Oral
The majority of women cannot achieve orgasm through intercourse. Taking
pleasure in delighting your woman orally is by far one of the most enjoyable
ways for her to be satisfied.
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Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed., is a sex advisor/educator
and author helping monogamous couples improve sexual satisfaction,
increase intimacy, be better lovers and keep the passion alive.
She is also author of the hot new sex guide for couples titled,
“Smoldering Embers-Hot Erotic Stories and Sex Tips to Light
a Couple’s Fire.
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